Episode Summary

In this hilarious and heartfelt episode, Katelynn and Annie are diving into the things solo moms hesitate to do—and the creative, clever, and sometimes chaotic workarounds they’ve discovered instead. From grilling (spoiler: Katelynn has a cast iron grill pan hack for those coveted “striped hot dogs”) to car maintenance, camping, and tackling sports events alone, this conversation is packed with honest confessions, laughter, and encouragement.

If you’ve ever felt intimidated to try something on your own, this episode reminds you: you’re not alone. You’ll hear the duo’s favorite “hacks” for navigating these tricky moments as well as stories about fireworks gone wrong, muddy adventures, and the infamous scooter tire debacle. Because commanding chaos doesn’t mean doing it all—it means finding what works for you.

Standout Quotes

“I’m not trying to win a grilling competition. I’m just trying to make my kid a striped hot dog.” — Katelynn

“If there was a gas delivery service, I’d pay for it. I hate pumping gas that much.” — Annie

“Sometimes you have to get creative when you’re solo parenting—it’s about survival and sanity, not perfection.” — Annie

“It’s okay to ask for help, take shortcuts, or say ‘not right now.’ You’re not failing—you’re just finding your way.” — Katelynn

Takeaways

1️⃣ It’s normal to feel hesitant about certain solo mom tasks, but there’s almost always a workaround.

2️⃣ Hacks like grill pans, air pump tools, and leaning on your community make life easier (and safer).

3️⃣ Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s part of learning, growing, and parenting solo with confidence.

4️⃣ Starting small, asking for help, and using humor can make intimidating tasks feel more manageable.

5️⃣ You don’t have to do things the “traditional” way—finding your own path is part of commanding the chaos.

Mentioned in this Episode

• Crockpot Pulled Ranch Chicken
  
• Coffee Cake
  
• Cast iron grill pan for indoor “grilling”
  
• Home Depot, Lowe’s, and REI classes for DIY skills
  
• Portable air compressor for easy tire inflation

Featured Chaos Anthem

“Grillz” – Nelly

Because whether it’s striped hot dogs or power tools, we’re tackling solo mom life with a little swagger—and a lot of humor.

🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

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